I have spent a lot of time on studying feminism now. I came to the conclusion that feminism is like communism, feminism would be good and lead to gender equality ( not considering some more extreme subgroups of feminism like gynocentristic feminism or spiritual feminism that consider women better than men and more special, but the main idea of feminism which considers to promote the equality of both genders ). But feminism doesn't work, because:

-ALL women misuse feminism and the rights that came with it in some way for their personal advantage, by for example, saying for example that you are a feminist ( so that you want equality), but in the same time ask a man to stand up from his place in the bus because you say that you are a woman and it would be rude not to stand up. You can see it as female students from colleges and universities or degrees are one of the groups of feminism that are most extreme about feminism even as they are people with most rights and freedom in our society, just to gain more rights for women beyond equality to make their lives easier.

-the goals of many feminist leaders like Betty Friedan are many times wrong as they use arguments that do not lead to gender equality but to a favorisation of women over men, like for example the lie that women revive less money for the same amount of work as the man ( here explained: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/01/no-women-don-t-make-less-money-than-men.html or here aswell: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1oqyrflOQFc )

-the lack of knowledge about feminism by women who believe in feminism, they still support it and consider themselves as they see an advantage for them in there daily life.

Having these things in mind and looking at the rights of women in our western society nowadays, I have to say that feminism today is not anymore for equality for men and women but for an favorisation of the rights for women over the rights for man, with the goal that women are worth more than men which is already the case in our western society nowadays, for example, the misuse of the rights as a woman they have if they were raped (here an example: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=j5a4wtscImc), another exemple is, if you do some things as a man specially in terms of violence it will have much more consequences for the same thing as for women.

Coming to another conclusion is that women still support feminism nowadays as they were brainwashed by media that was financed by the feminist movement and because they see that it could give than advantages for them and make life easier.

I also realised that male feminist often are feminist just in hope to better their chances with getting laid or their relationship with their girlfriends, etc. as they want to represent themselves as a man who understands women for the women they are interacting with.

in my opinion, In the end, feminism is causing a conflict between men and women which therefor causes the splitting of our society ( men and women) and makes it easier for more powerful institutions like the state you live in to control the Population.

MY QUESTION IS: How can I use the fact that most women are feminists in some way for my advantage?

In other words, how can I make a woman like me using the fact that she is a feminist without telling her or being a feminist myself?

Or for exemple if a woman claims she is a feminist and represents her as a feminist and I have a date with her, and afterwards she is expecting me to pay the meal but I say that this would go against the view of feminism and the idea of achieving equality, that she at the end pays her own meal without getting mad, but contrary happy to do what a real feminist should do.

Thank you for you answers!