You meet a girl somewhere or online, get to know her a bit. She's funny, smart, attractive, etc. Then you give out social accounts, see her Twitter and her bio simply says "feminist" and your heart sinks. I'm not even exaggerating. It's an instant feeling of shock and sadness unlike no other. The only feeling I can describe it as is similar to unrequited love. Because I could genuinely care about her, maybe be in love with her but seeing that, I know she wouldn't care about me or my feelings. I can also equate it to when the Veela from the Harry Potter series transfigure into their other form.

It's an instant feeling of knowing we are no longer compatible because she will be verbally abusive and/or hypocritical.

To be fair most radicalized feminists would not typically be described as all the other positive attributes I just described, so possibly there is some hope. But when I see retweets from people who consistently make misandry comments they have already succumbed to the dark side.