Been talking to this girl who's brutal but honest on what turns her on and off. Was experimenting with some bluepill tech (haven't had the chance to do so previously with ex) because she basically told me 'make as many mistakes as you want with me'.
She is attracted to very TRP things (as expected). Examples:
- She likes when I passively demonstrate higher value than her (status, etc)
- She dislikes it when I give her comfort by being there for her
- She accedes quickly to agree and amplify
- She prefers that I focus on myself and really dislikes simping behavior
- She confirms that neediness is unattractive but vulnerability is sometimes necessary
Recently she's been feeling insecure so I tried to reassure her (since she's super good at reassuring and I thought it would have a similar effect).
She told me that she actually finds it loathsome when anyone (including me) reassures her that she's attractive because she feels that we have low standards.
Is this part of being RPW, or is it a sign of emotional damage? She does have some weird habits like disliking men for our higher earning power, despite enjoying attraction from being lower perceived status than me
there doesn't seem to be anything here