I'm new to trp so i really need your help about this.

I've been talking to a lot of women, most of them i met online. Many of them told me i look good, but when the convo start, they just stay away from me. I don't know whether they just got bored or scared or something. I've been respectful with their boundaries, respect them, be there when they need me, listen to them, and other stuff that women always tell guys who have no clue how to properly treat women.

No one really told me how to treat women except, i guess, movies where the nice guy get everything at the end because they waited. I don't want to be like that anymore. I learned my lesson. Life ain't like in the movies. But the problem is i can't change that mindset.

I feel like i got a game but i dont know how to play it properly.

I dont want to be with someone who'll just settle with me because they hit their wall or because they are tired and just want peace.