ELI5 in approaches and such down to interactions with people I’ve met and enjoyed to a small extent, I want to know what I’m looking for. Is it someone that can teach me something, someone that can put me forward in life, even someone who entertains me regardless of mutual enjoyment. I shouldn’t give af if these people like me if I like them right? By now it sounds like I already know the answer, I don’t, they’re only principles that I’ve only heard about but yet to grasp. Do your worst.