I’m 19 years old and i have been in a ltr for 6 months now. I’ve been seeing this girl for about a year now and everything was going well. We have had some up and downs but nothing major. I always lead and she follows.

During our ltr I haven’t been “sweet talking” her that much, and my sense of humor is a bit harsher, and a lot of roasting.

About 2 weeks ago she told me her self esteem has been really low in our relationship. She doesn’t feel happy/good when she isn’t with me. I told her to go ahead and start working out again (corona closed our gyms down for a while) aswell as to start reading again, and similar things. After that the problem was gone, or so I thought. Yesterday she called me and said the same thing again. I told her we will talk about it tomorrow.

We have sex 1-3 times everyday we see eachother and she always tells me she’s exited to see me and responds quick, always makes me breakfast and gives me massages. I reward her when she does those things.

So my question is: is this really a case of low self worth and self esteem, or is it monkey branching in disguise? Should i try to help her out with this or just next her?