i need help getting over the ex

2020-07-25T08:23:44+00:00

Delete anything related to her on your phone, reading old messages and looking at her photos are the reason why you keep bringing up these emotions. This is from personal experience. When I end things with a girl, I delete all her shit and move on. If you trully believe that you did your best by living her and giving her everything, what have she done in return? Dumping you over text. Grieving over someone who doesn't care about is not the move bro. Everyone was heart broken at some point but we learned our lesson.

Don't end your life over a girl, keep you chin up and move on. Be a man

And salute to for you not contacting her after, that means you respect yourself.

2020-07-25T07:52:03+00:00

Remember one thing: Men master their own emotions. We'll still be here, even if you make a mistake and go back to her. Learn, fall, try again and overcome.

itsikkkhanimran · 2020-07-25T09:47:37+00:00

here i found a really old advice that someone gave here on reddit it always worked:-

she's taking a new cock every other day while you're sitting there imagining being with her, look at how fuked up that picture this.getting railed by all kinds of guys. she doesn't give a fuk about you, why should you give one single fuk about her? disregard her completely, I don't care if you've been going after her for months or years, stop it now. I don't care if you think you've put too much time in, stop it. stop thinking how great it would be with her, because it wouldn't. you're better than that, she's just another slut that you were infatuated with. shes average. shes nothing to you. I don't care if she texts you saying she misses you, don't respond, don't wait 2 hours then respond and think you're alpha, you're in the same fuking spot with her at the end. forget about her, work on your goals for life, aesthetics being one of them. when you're aesthetic as fuk, don't give a fuk, alpha and confident as fuk you know what will happen since you've been disregarding her? she will come to you like never before, and you can toy with her fuking emotions if you want. girls live off emotions, you think you're fuked with this oneitis, imagine how bad it will be for her when she sees how awesome you are and you aren't giving her any time. it will eat her inside, then you can eventually fuk her and disregard if you want, or just forget about her. it doesn't matter, you know why? because you're the fucking man so start acting like it. stop feeling bad for yourself, stop fantasizing about her before you go to bed, stop fapping to her, stop all of this nonsense. you're going to look back and laugh at how dumb you were for being infatuated with this chick when there are tons of them out there, go get more. put yourself out there, lift heavy as fuk, work on ceo'ing, adopt the not a single fuck was given attitude and watch your happiness rise to higher levels than ever before.

Me2Brah · 2020-07-25T13:32:16+00:00

She’s fucking other dudes. You are crying over someone who doesn’t even consider you an after thought

Prince-Koko · 2020-07-25T11:16:58+00:00

Buddy it can take a long time. I'm still hurting after 14 months and it was like a bpd 1 year relationshit. I rolled around with a loaded gun ready to off myself, I understand your pain.

More pain more gain, suffering is the only way you become stronger. Strong men truly do come from hard times.

See those people that came from poor backgrounds that bust their ass off and never complain? Vs the entitled people that complain all day and never want to sweat or suffer? Who would you rather be?

A man of virtue who has suffered, therefore truly knows hardship and can relate to others, or a guy who just got everything handed to him on a platter?

Youtube "marcus aurelius quotes" there are two 8 minute videos. The great romans knew the hardships of life. The great Julius Ceaser thought he was getting cucked. Learn from the wisest of men, have no expectations from anyone and you will never hurt. This includes family, women, friends.

Understand that your girlfriend released the same chemicals that snorting cocaine and injecting heroin release. Busting in her made you feel so alpha, her fake love made you feel so warm and at ease, it was so exciting and interesting. These emotions are literally identical to the ones Junkies are searching for. Understand that you are literally weaning off of serious drugs, and for some people the cravings or thoughts on how these chemical releases made them feel never goes away.

Awalt. Always. Women have no romantic or loyal love. It is natures design, the world is not yours. Be thankful you have the capability to understand truths about the world and be the change you want to see. But make sure that change is done by you, not with expectations of anyone else. Nature is cruel, just watch a national geographic video on animals killing eachother, and how other species mate. Is it so far fetched that our nature is cruel to ensure to continuation of our species?

Welcome hardship, it is an opportunity to grow and become a better person, to gain a deeper understanding, and to move towards what your destiny is.

Embrace the pain, know that many days of pain are ahead, but when the good days come they feel that much better. Godspeed brother, chin up. You are simply maturing into a man

FanofLemmy · 2020-07-25T16:34:26+00:00

This is gonna sound harsh but, pull your pants up, put your nose to the grind. Build a fire inside you and never put it out. You are a man, so act like one. You are too emotional.

Look to stoicism and become an unmovable, unshakeable rock; a pillar of strength.

If you dont lift weights, start. Build yourself physically, become strong, become agile. Life will be easier and you will thank my in 50 years if I'm not dead.

Work hard, move up to a comfortable position in a job you dont hate, and save money for early retirement.

Date if you must. The fastest way to get over a girl is to get under another one.

Stop being caught in the oneitis mindset.

Read the rational male series and the way of men.

Watch Coach Greg Adams, Better Bachelor, LFA, Coach Red Pill.

Internalize the fact that we are all alone, and will die alone, and make peace with it.

Life is a series of choices, and if you choose to be weak, you wont ever become strong.

Know that your ex, the girl you are pining over, doesnt care about you, and is sucking and fucking random cock whenever she wants. This is the hardest thing for men to understand.

If you approached her in your current state, do you think she would think you are a man or a boy?

We are all here for you, brother. Some of us just give love differently.

I hope you can break free from all of this and be happy, and enjoy your life.

EL10RUB · 2020-07-25T07:42:37+00:00

Try looking at her objectively, as the person she is.

SonOfAldrete · 2020-07-25T08:19:09+00:00

If you got dumped over text, that tells you she is a low value female. It is beta to obsess over it for an extended period of time. I know because I did it myself. It is alpha to recognize that you should not expend any energy or emotion on low value people. Instead of spiraling into depression, develop yourself and increase your value as a person and on the sexual market. Odds are you will see her go nowhere in life because she will continue to be a low value person.

Goaliej · 2020-07-25T13:08:28+00:00

Been there, done that. Took me 4 years to fully recover. Time is the healer of most wounds. These helped immensely:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I0czvJ_jikg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fz1N8W8phec

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9UE8R-ZL90

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zY9es8R4PD4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AnTe663mrY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BteOmAyezLY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JgpmFp2DViA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQebhGFXxoM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bu3rsha1ZtI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06WM8oLH87M

aceofnone82 · 2020-07-25T10:10:32+00:00

This is a period of growth and learning for you. you gotta walk through this desert if you are going to survive. Lift, read, eat healthy foods, focus on your studies. Ignore the shit out of her. I promise you this feeling of misery will end

prbonfanti · 2020-07-25T16:42:27+00:00

I know how it is, i am not pro(dumped only once) , but maybe it helps:- Delete her number

- Remove things related to her from your sight.

- Block her in social media.- get some hobby, running, pull weights, some sport, reading, etc.And important to remember.- only death lasts forever, all others thing change or die, like relationships, and to die before your time gives a victory for the scumbags who run clown world, don't give them that.- passion is like some drug and what you feel is something like withdraw symptoms, forced abstinence, will be hard but will pass.

“Understand at last that you have something in you more powerful and divine than what causes the bodily passions and pulls you like a mere puppet. What thoughts now occupy my mind? Is it not fear, suspicion, desire, or something like that?”

Focus your mind in something useful for you, for the body, mind, or wallet. When bad things come to mind just look at then and remember, those things don't do me any good, and keep doing what you proposed himself to do.

https://youtu.be/yKjzd5HLFCk?t=33

nebraskaguy402 · 2020-07-25T22:18:14+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnLoToJVQH4

RaccoonHair · 2020-07-27T09:20:04+00:00

Listen carefully:

Get a (second) job.

Work out.

Take up a sport. A SPORT.

Take up a hobby with a high attention to detail.

Read books on how to be a man. Something from the 19th century or earlier.

guacamol678 · 2020-07-27T09:59:55+00:00

Meditate and practice stoicism buddy. Go monk mode or learn to pump and dump. Go ahead and learn to break addictions from youtube videos or educational resources and apply it. You break addictions from accumulated attempts not from the first time.

Title	i need help getting over the ex
Author	deicid
Upvotes	7
Comments	15
Date	July 25, 2020 4:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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