Yes, the whole damn situation was a mess. I am twenty one years old and this was my second serious girlfriend. In this relationship, I think I learned a lot about relationships and how romance isn't as effortless as it's framed to be. I went down a road which was quite embarrassing where I became horribly needy and attached. It's now apparent to me that this drove her away, but in the moment it seemed like showing love as much as I could was the right move. But towards the beginning of the relationship when I was distant and seemingly less interested, she was very into me and seemed dependant on me. I thought this was all a coincidence but now I understand that I misstepped a few times and lost her interest by being overbearing and needy. Though things didn't work out, they didn't end in a firey crash, which brings me to my question: Since I know now that I was being a pussy, and I know that I should be more distant in a relationship if I want some power, is it wise (or possible) to try again with this girl at some point in the future? Or will she always see me as a needy little bitch? Thanks in advance to whoever may be able to offer some advice.