I’m watching a lot of reality TV shows, online streams, and YouTube videos... and I noticed a lot of older guys aren’t married, or don’t have wedding rings.

I’m 32 now, and have been trying to talk to girls and meet one with a good personality. Sometimes it just doesn’t happen.

They say it’s my fault that I should put myself out there more.

I used to go out every Friday night and just walk the downtown area to talk/pick up girls... And it worked a lot, but non of the girls were ‘keepers’. Some times on a nice Friday night there would be no girls out and about...

Relatives ask all the time why I’m not married yet or have a girlfriend and make it out like it’s my fault.

When I ask the relatives how they met their significant other they make it seem like they just got lucky... the girl needed a date and he just happened to there.

The point is it’s not your fault, and it just doesn’t happen sometimes.

Maybe I’m wrong but I used to go out and go go popular hang out spots and still couldn’t meet anyone.