I have disclosed insecurities to my ltr, and i can’t tell if it was even a bad thing to do from how she reacted. i can only assume from red pill it was definitely a bad thing to do.

I was having an off day and I said shit about how I think I’m ugly. She reassured me and told me how hot I was and how obsessed she is with me, how good the dick is.

I told her about how after my past relationships I have some anxiety about her cheating on me and she reassured me again and told me that it won’t ever happen because she loves me too much and wouldn’t ever want to hurt me.

I know this behavior would be typical, just to reassure someone and tell them that you would never cheat on them. And you guys don’t have many details to go off of, but is revealing your insecurities to your s/o always nessecarily a bad thing? and should you trust in women if they earn it, or should her cheating always be in the back of my head because AWALT?