So after we celebrated NYE me and my LTR headed back to my place. I thought my parents would be sleeping but when we got there, they weren't. They were both in the kitchen, arguing and very drunk. I believe I kept frame through the situation. When my father saw us he got up and fucking embarrassed me so much. He started talking to her and introducing himself. Then he told her to join them in the kitchen and my gf stupidly started going there but I pulled her and told her go to my room and told my father basically to fuck off. I told him you're drunk, get back in the kitchen. And he did.
That's not the worst part. Like 30 mins later, me and my ltr were getting ready to go to bed when some very loud sound came from the kitchen and my mother screamed. I quickly went there and it turns out my father hit her multiple times. The reason was that she admitted to cheating on him. My mother was crying and unable to move. I got very scared that she might get paralyzed or some shit but I didn't panic. I picked her up and put her in the bed in our living room. I didn't call an ambulance because my mom said not to do so. She said she will be okay and the next day she was. The next day they argued some more, my father pushed her around (I was in my room) and she cried again.
My LTR probably heard all of what happened and when she asked I told her that my mother admitted to cheating on him and that he hit her. I didn't act vulnerable in any way around her. I acted like the situation didn't affect me at all and I told her that I'll probably leave the place in 2 or 3 days (I'll rent out an apartament).
Do you think that this whole circus will affect our relationship in any way?
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