I’m a hardcore feminist and these are some of the things society does to men that I absolutely hate

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Quick clarifying edit: I didn’t say “I’m a hardcore feminist BUT”. I said “I’m a hardcore feminist AND”. All of what you are about to read IS feminism so don’t come at me in the comments saying I’m not a feminist or thanking me for not being like other feminists. This. Is. Feminism. 1. I don’t like when people shame men for finishing quickly during sex. 2. I hate that people shame men for penis size. 3. It’s wrong to shame men for their height. 4. I don’t like that men are shamed for balding. 5. I wish men could do stuff to enhance their appearance without feeling ashamed. (Wear makeup, hair pieces, etc.) 6. I haaaaaaate the word “simp”. Let men love people and express their love for fucks sake. 7. Stop shaming dudes for being bad in bed. Make an effort to help them feel safe and comfortable during sexual situations and teach them what feels good. 8. Fuuuuuuck everyone who says that men should act a certain way or their less of a man. Men’s masculinity and value is not determined by how well they conform to some made up standard. They’re fucking human. Let them have feelings and feel safe and comfortable and loved. 9. This is the weirdest one of all to me, but holy fucking shit I hate when people give guys shit if they don’t want to go down on a woman. LET MEN HAVE SEXUAL BOUNDARIES TOO.

REEEEEEEEEE THESE THINGS FRUSTRATE ME

‼️‼️‼️VERY IMPORTANT EDIT‼️‼️‼️ I’m glad this blew up and that you guys are appreciating what I said and that it resonated with some of you. Please though, if you see a post about feminism that doesn’t mention men’s issues, give it the same attention and care. Feminism is for men too even if every post doesn’t talk about men’s issues. Give the same kind of support to women’s issues too when you see them ❤️