I'm 24 and in the dating scene. I don't consider myself particularly picky. I've basically got 2 firm standards.

don't be (too) ugly don't be a wh0re

Anything besides that is negotiable, and at least worth a single date to get to know them, in my opinion. But apparently, in 2021, that's an unreasonable opinion.

I noticed onlyf@ns was trending on twitter, and against my better judgement, I clicked to find out why. Apparently it's because of this NYT article. https://twitter.com/nytimes/status/1349407158476136451