I had been talking to some girl in 2019, and I eventuality asked her out. She declined, claiming she wasn’t ready for a relationship.

A few days later, I’m with my best friend in the library. He asks me if I’m talking to anyone. I show him the girls profile on IG. He frowns and opens him dms.

I shit you not, this exact girl was trying to get him to break up with his girlfriend and go out with her. She also dmed him first. After he sent her his girlfriends picture, she pursued him even harder (i assume because his Gf is ridiculously pretty).

This is only one example of when girls go after taken men. I also see women on social media saying stuff like “If nobody else wants him, why would I want him?”.

This seems retarded to me, because as a guy who’s never had a girlfriend, it seems impossible for me to get that first domino to fall. So it seems I’m doomed to being single forever since most girls only like guys who are in relationships.