This has happened a lot to me and I'm not sure if it's because I put off too much fuckboy vibes, or if they want me to orbit them etc.

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Basically when I meet a girl, we get to know each other etc. I straight up just dgaf and do shit like choking them, pin them against the wall, say shit like I'll spit in their mouths if they dont be quiet, they'll laugh and be like "ewwww" but will be receptive of it and even ask me sexual questions, choke/playfight back, ask me why I'm such a "manwhore" etc.

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The girls are fine with this (Until the day they call the cops lmao), except for the fact that I can barely get a lay from this for some reason, and then the next week I'll have found out they had sex and are in a relationship with some other guy.

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Its confusing for me as I feel like what I do is sort of turning them on, but it's like it doesn't help me. Am I basically just giving them free validation by what I do as they know that I want to fuck but they wont let me? I feel like I should be able to capitilise on how comfortable they are being sexual with me to turn that into something.