A man being with a woman just because she is hot is way less shallow than when a woman is with a man because of his money.

When a man is dating a woman because he likes her body, at least he likes something about her and not something she possess. When a woman is dating a man because of his car, for example, she likes something he posses not something about him. I can't even imagine a man saying: "Well, she is not exactly my type but at leats she has a nice car and money to give gifts". Most of the time, a man will not care about these things. She could be living in the streets but if she is attarctive, the man would still want to be with here even if its just for sex. At leats he likes he BODY that she was born with and not some facy shit she bought.