I’m just trying out different things of what I’ve learnt and playing the field. 1 plate of 4 months never calls me, gives me good morning texts a lot but has never initiated a date either.

We take it in turn paying and she’s brought me some expensive meals.

I’m not sure if I’m doing something wrong because I’ve not pulled back. Our dating has simply gone.

Call to arrange date. Date Few days off

Call to arrange Date Few days off

I don’t text her.

It’s been 3 months now and although she is extremely submissive and independent it sometimes plays on my mind because of how other girls have chased me. I used to attract really insecure broken girls though so this is new to me.

On YouTube Alpha make strategies thinks going no contact is stupid because it doesn’t raise attraction.

But I want to pull back, I’m debating winding it in so much that I see her once for a date and that’s it, maybe take the odd week off to confuse and add dread.

I think I’m being too available, I’m learning a lot here so please don’t give the whole (why you writing about a plate, I’m practicing my frame in the field)

What’s the right way to pull back and start getting her initiating?