I know this will sound bitter , but it’s just something that’s been running through my mind lately.
In high school I was overweight , lacked social skills and had no girls in my social circle.I made a fitness transformation during my time in college , and suddenly I get some options and my dating and sex life changed.
I graduated from college and got a job as an engineer in an oil and gas company ,after that, I can safely say money has had a huge impact on my dating and sex life.
During this time I’ve also had 2 relationships where the girl has cheated on me.
As a man looking for a relationship, your worth in the dating market is based on your occupation , education and what you can provide then comes looks. how does one bring himself to be loyal to one woman if the things that initially made her attracted to him are external things?
I’ve been hooking up for over a year now, I find myself constantly looking at people relationships and asking myself ‘how do they do it?’. I know a part of me wants to settle down and be in a relationship , but the other part of me also refuses to fully trust a woman in a relationship , let alone marry her. It is because I was ‘invisible’ to the girls I liked back in high school and now I have women wanting to settle down with me but I just can’t bring myself to do it.
