It seems to me that the biggest complaint with FDS is that we encourage double standards. That we require our men to be good looking, rich, and successful, and we don’t hold ourselves to the same standards. That’s not true at all. This sub encourages women to have our own money, and to be physically and emotionally healthy. The sub also teaches us NOT to chase men. So that clearly means the men pursuing US are attracted to us physically. As far as paying for dates, I’m not going to list all the. reasons why it’s only fair, I’ve already done that in a previous post. I do have a question. Why don’t you direct your anger towards men who want to pay for dates because it makes them feel like a man?Why don’t you direct your anger towards the rappers who brag about “ stunting on you broke ......, and taking your girl”.?Why aren’t you mad at the singers who sing about buying a woman’s affection? Men are the ones who set up this system in the first place, but you don’t blame or hate them. You hate us, and It’s because you hate women. Which is fine, but don’t worry. We’re not checking for you. There’s plenty of women who don’t know their worth who will split all the Red Lobster dinners, and they hate us too, so link up and hate on us together.