Bartender at place down the road, quiet introvert but respected that I actually asked for her number in person instead of writing it on the check apparently. Both of us are very busy people and stoners. We get along well when we chill and just vibe and talk and listen to music. The first time we hung out we went to a bar, my advances were rejected a bit but I kept frame and it ended well with some kissing. Second and third times we chilled were after her shift at 11, both of us exhausted, and we would smoke and talk and it would end w some goodbye kissing. We have to sit in my bedroom in kind of an awkward way and I really just have been struggling to make advances on her in that scenario. The third time I knew she had to leave early so I asked when we were done smoking if she wanted to kick it and watch Netflix to gauge where we were at and she had to leave. When I took her to a bar we could play pool or do whatever and I could make moves easily. I wanna take her out for drinks again when she doesn’t work, we’re more comfortable now and I think I could escalate properly in a bar scenario. So really looking for tips on how one would escalate when we were smoking and chilling. I have been having trouble on bringing someone over completely cold (not in a party scenario I live in a house with roommates). If it’s a party, I can escalate easily and bring her to my room. If it’s a bar, I can escalate at the bar and when we get back it’s almost automatic. I just can’t seem to escalate from cold at my place. Any tips are appreciated thanks in advance!