One of the things that really annoys me about male prioritization and agency in our society is how men are always supposed to be a positive mood and spotlight

What is the point of staying positive though if men are always being constantly shit tested by other men, women and society? And why is it always ungrateful women spouting that shit that mosy unironically? Can someone explain to me why men are forced to keep themselves in a state of constant positivity all for nothing except for the sake of pleasing society?