This way, people get way to much triggered than to explain yourself to others or to give them reasons or information.

We all have those people in life, family and friends are the one who are closes to us then are acquaintances, society and coworkers, who pressure about having kids, getting married with bunch of stupid reason why to do it, and then they come with the reasons what happens if you don't have it, "you will die alone","you will miss having kids","spreading the genes" ,"are you gay",and i don't remember the rest of it.

Really i got so fed up and tired of trying to reason with people why i dont want kids, why i dont want to get married and constant guilt tripping, blaming.

I decided do not give up any reason about my decisions when this topic comes up and it will ot many occasions.

I give them silent treatment and just telling them it is my decision without explaining why. I found this thing better for me, worse for them because they are triggered more than giving them any reasons.

I am just silent and then leave the room. And i just avoid family gathering and live alone.

No matter what i do, seems they always find something to blame and guilt tripping me. I was feeling like having a rope around my neck and those people are pulling me down.

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While i was having a job, now i have own company. I was very reserved and secretively about my life. I heard so many stories about me i could write many novels.People hate when don't know about you, so they don't have info about you and they can't use it.

Don't give information about you to people. That means, friends, family, coworkers.