Hey all, I think I'll be able to get some good advice here for that situation.

Lately I wrote a post about problems I had on first dates, I took the advice I got.

I got to a realization that I'm taking the dating life way to hard. I'll give a quick story as an example:

I met a girl, dates, first date was good, ended with a kiss. We kept on talking where she send me a lot of messages, and made plans to meet again. Due to some reasons she had problem with the time we chose and suggested other time to meet, which was fine with me. We did meet and it wasn't as good as the first date, but were fine. She even texted me afterwards (I met some friends from school later and she wrote me to have fun and so on...).

Thing is, that after that things felt declining.

Now maybe she lost interest, I don't know. Maybe she met someone better, I don't know. Thing is that I don't mind getting rejected, but the thought that I might have "lost" her to someone she sees as better is really annoying me and distracting me to a degree that I can't even concentrate on regular daily tasks as school.

How do I handle these "losing" thoughts? The thing that drives me crazy the most is the thought in my head that might be wrong, that I just lost to someone else.

Thanks guys.