Note: This is the first girl I pull after swallowing the pill.

Last week I was out with a few friends and we were in a club having fun, doing our thing. I meet a girl and we start talking, I'm making her laugh, escalating, bit of kino here and there, you know the drill. We make out, her friends want to leave so I get her number.

A few days later I tell her to come out with me for a drink. We meet at a bar, we each get our own drink and we find a quiet spot on the terrace. The conversation starts flowing and I'm going with it, maintaining eye contact ALL THE TIME. I could tell she liked it. The problem is my frame had changed, the way I talked and the way she responded was different. I did very little escalation but I made an ace move at the end and managed to take her home.

The difference between the two situations is that my mindset was completely different in the two settings.

Question: How do I maintain the same frame with women regardless of the setting? What sort of mental preparation do you engage in before you're going to meet a girl one on one?

Thanks in advance.