TL;DR: is that beta? what other stuff is beta? how can I deal with a small penis and baldness in the bed?

hey, long story short: I was reading someone created a post asking if eating pussy was beta. As a man with a small penis, that would be my only way to being able to have a second encounter. I've been looking also into things like massages, kink, etc. I would like to give a great experience to the girl to be able to repeat sex and keep them as plate. If that's beta, what are my options? are there any fucking options?

Thanks.