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I should've talked to her...

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November 3, 2013
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Title I should've talked to her...
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[deleted]
Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date November 3, 2013 3:05 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1psey3/i_shouldve_talked_to_her/
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[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So next time you face such a situation, you know what action to take. There you go. You've learned for the next one.

[–][deleted] 0 points0 points0 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Abundance mentality will help take that pussy off the pedestal.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, not really. Do any of these feelings help you with anything?

I think it's very clear to the observer that no, they do not.

Nonetheless, that can be common for someone with very little experience. With experience and appropriate understanding you wo't feel an emotional response to mistakes or rejection. You simply pick up, learn, and move to the next one.

[–]Exactly_what_I_think 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Stop bitching and go talk to other girls.

There is no one girl.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Exactly_what_I_think 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I would not say you are pedestal ling her just acting like you had one chance.

Talk to some other girls. You won't regret it and you are less likely to miss a better than average opportunity.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah parent post has good advice. This wont be the last chance. Carpe Diem... Next time you get the chance go and talk to her. Also talk to other girls. It is a nice DHV which can get her more interested in you.

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