So last time I hung out with a girl it went well. At the end of the “date” we ended up making out in her car. She used tongue and seemed very interested. I didn’t have a place to escalate (Roommates parents were visiting and staying the night and I wanted to respect that) so I just left it at that. Now I’m texting her and she said she is looking for something platonic and wants to keep it at that. So my first thought was to just not answer and move on but a part of me is thinking “Don’t listen to what she says listen to what she does” (in other words who cares that she said platonic she made out with me). So instead I’m probably just going to ignore she said that, hang out again, and escalate to see if that was just a shit test. And if she isn’t interested in the escalation then obviously I won’t force anything and just move on. Do you think this is a good plan or should I just say fuck it and move on? Another one of my friend thinks I should answer with agree and amplify “Yeah thanks for understanding I think we’d be better as friends” and then hangout and try to escalate but I personally think that’s just stupid and I should just flat out ignore/act like she never said that and set up another “hangout”. Again what are your thoughts? Thank as always.

Edit** Another option I was considering was just giving an ultimatum. “I don’t need anymore friends”.