Compared to the men they describe in their stories. Like I understand that harassment, abuse and violence are way more rampant than we men imagine and many decent-looking men are pos behind closed doors, but these stories are something else. Man who don't wash their ass? Refuse to do ANY kind of foreplay? Don't help their sick GF go to hospital? Call their wives a cunt in front of friends? "Forget wallets" on a date? I have lived in four different countries, including a really impoverished one, but I have never seen nor heard of anything like these . I had to cut ties with many men around me because my female friends had told me about horrific experiences with them, but none of the stories contained men asking them to send half of the money spent on a date back. I legitimately cannot imagine any of the men I am acquainted with behaving this way. Like I can imagine them stalking a woman or being coercive, but not refusing to help their pregnant wives carry bags. Honestly, where do you find men like these? Is this an American thing? Particular demographics/social class? What the actual fuck?