I had a coffee date with a girl who used to be a coworker. She sent me a text a year after she quit asking how I was doing. Since "don't shit where you eat" no longer applies, I took the opportunity to ask her out.

We jived well, she was clearly attracted to me. To escalate I asked if she wanted to come back to my place and see my cat. She told me she had allergies. She is a dog person and I don't doubt her. I teased her saying "no cat's, eh? We'll never get along". We shrugged at each other. She lives on the other side of Toronto with her parents.

So the girl is still texting me. I'd love to get her as a plate for experience and abundance, but I'm lost at the logistics. Yeah I've heard all the improvised places you can have sex; cars (don't drive, but could use a car/van share), washrooms, motels, parks (it's cold ass Toronto), airBnB(but that can't be spontaneous). I don't have a problem with any of them, but I can't help caring what she would think about it. I know it's probably as simple as me taking the lead.

I'm probably too dependent on my apartment, because it's on a 'suburban middle of nowhere' university campus. It's a 10 minute walk from the main hub with 50k students. Lot's of local daytime pickings, but there's only so much variety with on campus dates you can have. I'm a hour away from downtown Toronto.