Sorry if my question doesn’t make sense I’m not from the US.

This is my problem right now. I’ve been really ugly and fat and short my entire life up up until 19 when I had a second growth spurt and my face changed. I’ve never got any attention from girls. In fact I was the outcast and only hung out with people who were actually really high value and saw how girls treated them.

Anyways, my second growth spurt, I’ve noticed that girls are talking to me, want to hang out, and I’ve actually gotten my first LTR. My social circle increased too. I feel like the validating I receive is making me addicted to it. I’ve read the side bar but I don’t understand all of it.

How did you guys deal with lots of validation and how good it feels if you lack it? And how did you guys manage to stay in your path rather than codependent on validation?

Thanks you guys helped me a lot!