just moved out of home, ever since i left ive gotten threats they will show up at my workplace(i live aborad in australia btw) and lately my mother is saying she has heart issues now and that she needs to call me. she is trying all my emails to get to me after i blocked her phone number.
now to explain my abusive family situation yes i wasnt a good kid i had a lot of episodes where i broke shit. but it was mainly bc i learned it from my mother who also broke shit and threw fits. the last year was particuluarly hard. I was called a w*ore simply for meeinng my bf and nobody else during the p$$nde&ic. then i was called a whore for every small mistake after oh i didnt choose the right bowl for breakfast oh u w$ore, oh my bedsheets are a bit untidy while my brother literally doesnt make his bed half the time oh u whore, oh u havent washed ur hair oh u w*ore. everything was looked at suspicisiously if my selfie mode was on when my mom used my phones camera shed get sus, if my hair was out at 11pm while i was in the house oh why havent u gone to bed yet in an angry voice,. not to mention constant bodyshaming of my weight, my eyebrows, my dark circles. she says she does it for my own good like sure pointing out my fat belly all the time is definetly gonna make me loose weight. it wasnt a healthy situation and i live in a western country so why take the shit. i decided to cut all contact for a few months at least for my own metnal health. I know these health "issues" are most probably fake bc for all i know my parents did not fall under vacc\^ne priority for people with pre-exisiting health issues. so am i the asshole my ignoring
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