I've been reading about this topic a lot and seeing almost everyone talking about game and the dark triad traits. I do not have dark triad traits minus the low empathy/sympathy but I got that for a different reason. I like the person I am and I'm all about self improvement do t get me wrong. Working out and furthering my education/hobbies are important to me. I've never been a club king of person or a "game" kind of guy. I'm more content with doing my own thing and being good at whatever I want to be good at. My past experiences with women basically all happen the same, we meet through mutual friends and I somehow end up in bed with them (14 notch count at 22, started at 16). I find it hard to hold conversations with women because many don't like the stuff I'm into so I usually just stop talking to them. In order to get into the gaming thing I feel I would have to mimic traits I don't have or dumb down my conversations. Any advice?