So, I have been with my girlfriend for quite a some time, we hold quite good relationship, loving and understanding. We do everything within boundaries and consents and explore. We recently discussed to explore what nastiest we can do together when we meet next, nastiest and the dirtiest sex

  1. Could someone from the community share, what can we add more than regular sex and regular oral ?

  2. Also, I think, if I could please her analy, but we both are afraid to see poop or something or if it could hurt. After cleaning, do I wear condom on my finger ? Do I use lube for fingering ? Do I lick ? How does it feel to do and how will she feel ? And about entering anally ? How to make it best pleasurable, and hygiene and pain free ?