Assalamualeykum

I’ve read quite a few posts on this Sub and had chats with a few brothers and I want to clarify and expound on what MuslimRedPill means for me.

What it does mean:

1.) Transition from victimhood mindset to empowerment mindset

Really F being a victim in your life. Nobody makes your decisions for you, but you. Nobody can influence you, unless you allow it. Nobody can make you feel guilty for any reason unless you allow it. You are the prize. You are valuable. You’re a Muslim Man, now act like one! You have a duty to better your life, so that you can better it for those around you.

2.) Embracing the Role that God has ordained for us as Men.

We are MEN. We stand up for Truth and Justice. The Prophet ﷺ said that the best form of Jihad is “speaking the Truth in front of a tyrannical ruler”. If we’re going to be honest, most of us are not there. Speaking the Truth entails knowing the Truth as well as accepting the Truth. These are both skills of awareness that need developing and don’t come easy. Secondly you have to actually SPEAK and STAND UP for Truth. Doing despite all the possible negative consequences of your actions is for me the epitome of manhood.

3.) Having healthy dynamics with women.

Women are gorgeous. Women are beautiful and they have been created this way for us Men. I’ll be the first to admit that modern western Muslim women are definitely influenced by this feminism bullshit that is rammed down every child’s throat. I want every dude in here to know that you cannot befriend a woman, because if you do, you’re not being honest. You can have a working relationship.. But that’s about it. I would also plead that you don’t go out of your way to talk to women, if you’re not ready for marriage. A woman’s heart isn’t yours to play around with and if you’re seeking validation you’re being a chump.

4.) Getting what you want in life/ Taking responsibility for your life

If you’re living in the West we have so much to be grateful for. Now go out there confront the world, make yourself into a person of value and do so unapologetically. The mind is a problem solving machine, go put it to use. Eat healthily, get yourself to the Gym. Start Running. Treat yourself like someone you care about.

5.) Becoming outcome Independent.

Whatever action you take in life, don’t be deterred by the reaction. If you get rejected by women 5x, then good, they weren’t meant for you. Say what you mean to women and they will come to respect it, even if they don’t like it. I find this difficult at times but its a skill that needs to be practiced.

6.) No Bullshitting

This is important to me personally. I don’t like bullshitters. My dad is one and there’s nothing more infuriating. Whatever you do, don’t try and twist reality to fit your frame or perspective. Accept that you know nothing in the large scheme of things are are just doing the best you can. Always be open to the possibility that you are wrong. Whenever you're trying to get something without being straight up about it, you're bullshitting so let that be the cue.

  1. Don’t accept Bullshit

Do not accept bullshit from other people. If they are lying call them up on it. If they don’t like that then you need new friends. Lying is absolutely foul.. And it leads to hell. Confront the madness out there and you will become bigger and better because of it.

What it doesn’t mean:

  1. Hatred towards women AKA Misogyny
  2. Resentment towards women AKA Misogyny
  3. Exposing women. → Why would you do that when you have your own glaring mistakes. Look inwards instead of trying to find fault outside of yourself.

To my marriage-seeking brothas, there are decent chaste women out there, but first of all make sure you’re a decent chaste Man.. You wouldn’t want to become a Hypocrite now would ya?

Peace