As men, we are taught we are supposed to stick up for women. We are told we are supposed to risk our lives to protect them. We are programmed from early childhood to attend to her every whim, to give her our jacket if she's cold, to jump into a burning building to protect her sacred femininity.
We are also taught to intervene when other men treat women poorly. Stand up and offer to fight that other man to defend her. Tell him that he isn't treating her right. Tell her she deserves better.
But what happens if a woman is treating a man badly? Do other women tell her to cut it out? Do women try to protect the man who is being psychologically or financially abused?
No. Not once, in my entire life, have I seen this kind of behavior from ANY woman I have EVER met. Maybe on the internet I have seen 10 or so instances of "trad" women speaking positively about loving their husbands. But this is extraordinarily rare, and I only have seen it because I've specifically sought it out.
There are terms we use for this behavior. In men we call it "White Knights". In women we call it "Pick Me's / Pickmeishas"'-- for, "Men, pick me, I'm virtuous, I'm a good girl"
Go on TikTok and look through the comments. I belive this is a tremendous window into the collective unconscious because there is no real barrier to entry. You need to have maybe an IQ of 85 to fluently operate YouTube. But TikTok, your IQ can be 30 and you can still operate the app, and post idiotic stuff.
In those comments, you will see that for every 20 White Knights, there is maybe 1 Pick Me-- and making matters worse, the Pick Mes that are present, are barraged with hateful comments from other women just for being nice to a man.
So let me just summarize this in simple terms. We live in a world where women NEVER hold each other accountable for treating men right. EVER.
So what does this mean?
It means that a woman can cheat on her man with half the town. And her girlfriends will be overjoyed to hear the juicy stories. And they will be incredibly happy to lie to the husband's face, it's all part of the fun anyhow.
It means a woman can act like she's an ideal wife, then repeatedly treat her man like garbage, order him around, yell at him, scream at him, it's all in good fun-- because who's gonna stop her? If a man tries to stop her, she just yells oppression. If her husband tries to stop her, she just withdraws sex and verbally abuses him. Other women will never get in her way.
Basically what I'm trying to say is, what the lack of holding each other accountable TELLS us--
What that really means is that ALL women want to get away with being evil towards their men. ALL women want to betray their men. ALL women want to have the option of cheating on him, emotionally abusing him, gaslighting him.
I'm telling you guys. These bitches don't have souls.
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