I'm seething.
I had a creepy scrote message me on Facebook yesterday who I politely turned down, and then got a message from a random girl saying, "Hey, I don't know you but you should see this ... "
He went and put my face out there saying I 'rudely rejected him' and that I was probably 'hiding something and full of red flags' for not wanting to go out with him. I was, and am still incensed. Of course I posted the full conversation, clearly stating my boundaries, which is entitled incel male ego could not handle. I could have been fine to let the experience go for what it was, but to take it one step further and try to humiliate me on social media for putting in a boundary?
👏👏👏NO IS A COMPLETE SENTENCE👏👏👏
This guy got more than he deserved and a polite explanation, "I'm taking a break from dating, and not meeting new people during a pandemic." and his fragile ego STILL had to go and spin his sob story to make me a monster for putting boundaries in place.
There are dozens of women speaking up against him that he's done this before (never to this extent), that he has anger issues, pushes boundaries and has been caught spiking a woman's drink.
But the part that irks me the most ...
There's a few men agreeing. I was rude, by asserting my boundaries from the start. For stating that I am not looking to date.
THIS is how men think. That if we put a boundary in place, we're conceited. Or worse yet, that that boundary doesn't mean anything, it's simply a line to be pushed. That our boundaries are games, and that we're not worthy of them.
I'm glad I avoided a situation that could have potentially definitely been dangerous. It's really coming to light how men view the vulnerability of women, and our rights to place boundaries, and what those boundaries mean to us.
👏👏👏NO IS A COMPLETE SENTENCE👏👏👏
