It's a foundational tenant of Red Pill philosophy, and one which, at some point or another, we've all found ourselves on the losing end of... even when we should've known better; it's almost a natural, instinctual, reflexive reaction to tell someone how much we care about them when they seem like they're losing interest. It FEELS LIKE it should mean something. Heck, it MEANS SOMETHING TO YOU when you're the one still hopelessly in love...

However, it's important to remember that feelings carry no inherent value- only attraction carries value.

This stands in sharp contrast to what mainstream thinking teaches men- that if you're the one good man who shows that he'll be there for her and love her when all the other jerks just wanted sex, that you'll be rewarded with her gratitude. That if you show her that you love and accept her, she will appreciate you and remain loyal.

Here on The Red Pill, we know this to be a deliberate lie told to men in order for women to retain their status as primary selectors (of mate/boyfriend/husband). Mainstream advice is to just be yourself, emotionally vomit, and hope for the best- essentially an information dump so that the woman can make a clear headed decision regarding your status as worthy or unworthy. That works if you're genetically fit- and sucks for literally everyone else.

And as much as we say that FEELINGS and LOVE and CARING don't matter much, it's rare to ever see the proof in the pudding so to speak; to actually watch in real time how quickly someone goes from starry eyed, in love, to absolutely disgusting. However, MTV's Catfish gives us a pretty slick dose of reality in about 45min*

(*I'm not saying "watch MTV and don't lift"; I don't care what you do; I do RED PILL THEORY and analysis- not advice, or directly applicable self-improvement. Plenty of people do that on this message board alone, if not the entire Internet. If that's what you want, you're reading the wrong post...)

So... building from my last Red Pill lesson using MTV's Catfish, we find that the protagonist in search of their mysterious online romantic interest will almost always cite a strong connection as the motivation behind their "love"... even if it's obvious to the viewer that their Internet girlfriend/boyfriend is VERY attractive & model-esque when compared to the protagonist (which is the true source of their "feelings").

Then they meet and the roles are immediately reversed. I'm talking, like, light speed reversal. Because, of course, the person is tricking them with fake pictures. Suddenly the protagonist's strong connection vanishes instantaneously.

HOWEVER, looking at the other side of the equation- the catfish is in love with the protagonist for the VERY SAME REASON the protagonist fell for the catfish. The protagonist, using their own real pictures, is 3-4 notches ABOVE the real life, ugly/obese catfish.

Now it's the catfish's job to keep everything together- and what is their go-to? THEY TRY TO NEGOTIATE ATTRACTION.

And it looks just as cringe as when you were 20, crying at your girlfriend who had a foot out the door, as you were telling her how much you cared, how loyal and in-love you were; how you'd have treated her so well.

The catfish will beg and beg- tell the protagonist that everything but the picture has been true; that only the picture is a lie- AND SINCE THEY FELL IN LOVE WITH WORDS, SHOULDN'T WHAT THEY'RE SAYING MATTER?

No, dummy- only being hot matters. So get off the couch and lift! ;)

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