I browse the relationship advice subreddit and whenever the issue of attraction comes up I notice that most women almost reflexively go on the defensive. As soon as the idea that looks are the primary determinant in your ability to enter a relationship as man is brought up these women start calling those that believe this i ncels or losers and proceed to recommend therapy.

Do these women actually believe that looks don't matter as much, or are they being deceptive for some unknown purpose?

This is just one example, I've noticed that women actively gaslight on a range of issues surrounding the dating environment and they do it in an almost uniform fashion, it's akin to politicians rattling off the party line on some issue it's very interesting.

What you ya'll think?