Hi ladies! I have been dating/vetting a man for a little over a month now. Everything has been going well so far, however during casual conversation he has mentioned things he wants for his future that I don’t necessarily agree with. Examples being, the amount of kids he wants (he wants 3 but I’d rather have 1 and see if I want more, with no pressure for more), and he mentioned that he wants to “take it slow” in regards to marriage - and thinks it’s a good idea to move in together first for a little before marriage. Which are things I don’t agree with. He stated that they aren’t set in stone, but in my mind, I wouldn’t want either of us to have to compromise what we want. Is it too soon to start making decisions based on things like this? He otherwise seems to be HV up until this point. I run a bakery as a side hustle, he spent 3 days straight helping me bake and helping me run an event, I didn’t ask him to. He had to work at 4am the next day and stayed until 12 to help me pack up. He opens car doors, pays for everything, plans everything,is extremely thoughtful, he seems really invested in this. Should I wait and still continue to vet or cut my losses?
