I dated a girl a few times 4-5 years ago. I wasn't interested, but used her as an emotional support/woman's opinion on things ever since and we talked almost every day during my BP days. Keep in mind, I was typical beta in our conversations. She's always been into me since though. After taking the pill a few months ago, I stopped talking to her for a bit, and started talking to her again with the hopes of a hometown plate. She definitely still sees me as a BB/LTR though, as she said, "I respect you too much to hookup mindlessly" and she's "been getting weird vibes from me lately" (more assertion and less neediness) We were planning on meeting up tomorrow.

Question is: Can I turn it around in person (and advice on doing so), or is it a lost cause?

Game isn't much of an issue as I have other plates and can pull from nights out, but I've not dealt with a similar situation.