So i have a coworker who is basically having a friend of his wife come visit for a week. Now normally nothing would be wrong with this, but she expressed strong desires of having a threesome with him and his wife. His wife being bisexual is totally ok with this. They have made plans to basically have this threesome when she comes over, she just needed a blessing from the friend's husband. Surprise, surprise he isnt ok with it. But she is still going to visit for a week. So i mean, we can all guess what is going to happen most likely.

But this isnt the first time, i had another friend who did the same. He was basically with this one woman who was married and her husband went on deployment. She had kids too and the whole time she had no regard for her husband or the fact her kids knew this guy was around. She sold him a lie about leaving her husband because he was abusive and this guy was totally committed and trying to get to know her kids. But when the husband came back she cut ties with him. He then felt betrayed and wanted to tell him all about it but didnt.

This sort of stuff discourages me from ever getting married. I have too many stories regarding friends, female friends, people i know going through this or doing this to someone. Why get married when it can happen to me?