There's a lot of men who go to Reddit to ask about how to improve. They get advice like go to the gym, learn how to dress, get hobbies, approach more women, but it seems that everyone gives the same advice. It just starts to feel repetitive after a while with the same positive advice and life lessons. I feel like I've seen everything when it comes to self-improvement advice and it's really hard to find original ideas that challenge you.

Once you get married, you don't see that many men asking advice on how to improve unless it's to save a dead bedroom. Most of the men in LTRs and marriages give advice like they reached the top and know everything that life has to offer. It seems that self-improvement ends once you get married.

Most men would be content with having a unicorn but I feel like that would be boring. I used to crave unconditional love from women but after learning about how other men live unconventional lives I'm starting to realize there's a whole world outside of dating and society that is way more interesting. Does self-improvement end when you reach adulthood? How do you challenge yourself and grow while everyone else is staying the same?