MGTOW and already married. MGTOW helps a lot.

I'll go straight to the point - I was already like 15 years in LTR/marriage before joining MGTOW movement, etc, what can I tell you guys - it helps even for married guys.

Of course, when you have a family, you have to dedicate part of your time and money to them, and would be better if you actually love your family, zero questions, we are not cold hearts. But it is only a PART.

MGTOW / RedPill ideas are really precious.

- Learn the self respect. I am an only breadwinner, i.e. I bring all the income into the family. Before my wife tried to tell me like "yeah, of course you give us money, but life is not about money" attitude. Like I had to also do my chores, 50/50 of course. Beg for sex, yeah, I had this history, nothing to be ashamed of. Now I respect myself. COVID or not, but supporting the family is an important job, hard or not, and because I get the necessary skill I expect and I demand a respect to me. In actions and in words from all my family. I KNOW that I am the best and do my job pretty well, thus zero bullshit tolerance.

- Using LTR in your advantage. Yeah, say you are in LTR already. It is stupid to quit LTR just because you encountered an MGTOW. LTR is awesome: free sex, zero questions asked. Fresh homemade food at least once a day, actually all the day. Clean house. Well looking body nearby too. I sort of force my woman to be in an awesome shape and somehow pay for that too.

I want to rant here a bit about what I see in Western Civilization and its feminism, just a bit. Ugly women at home in ugly clothes who refuse to give sex to a husband yet they go to their jobs dressed like sluts and offer themselves to everyone outside of their home. I had this before, not anymore. It should be exactly the opposite. At home or near a husband - she should attract a husband, be nice, you get it. Outside - better not to be alone outside, but their she should be completely cold and unavailable.

- Strong negotiation position. I mean, you know, when you are both over 35, lets face the reality. Man is everything, woman is nothing. Before I always was getting "how DARE you to mention these obvious thing?". Now I do it, that is reality! I have a bit of honesty, respect and so on to what was done to me, i.e. I understand that she sort of "gave me her best years", but that was paid off completely with my money. Fair deal. Behave well, and I'll be fair and honest too. Zero tolerance to any male contacts beyond 5 minutes interaction in a supermarket to buy some food.

- Hobbies, free time , etc. I think that is quite important for a man. I never feel ashamed if I just sit and play games. Or watch porn. Or go to the friends, etc, to do a workout. It is my life after all! I am really obligated to provide a reasonable income and prosperity to my house. And share some activity with my wife, like cardio twice a day ;) but nothing more! Everything else is completely my life!

I also want to add I found it is a great advantage to completely separate chores. I.e. a man works to get money, and a woman works in the kitchen, in the bed and in a children room. I am responsible for my part, and she is responsible for her. Very, very rare I may help her when it is really required.