Thinking about hanging out with a girl I meet through a mutual friend at a party. She is asian (conservative) and recently turned 18. Based off what my friend told me, she is inexperienced (not slut). Our first encounter was great, lots of escalation and IOI. I'm certain she wants to hang out once I'm back in the city.

Alot of my friends and her friends are BP asians (LTRs only and date for weeks before sex, etc). Because of this culture, she might feel like a slut if she puts out early and I might look like a dick if I try to close.

Is it better to conform a bit to the BP programming to fit in with the norm? Should I try and close on the first date? Or would that come off too strong and scare her off?