I am a guy 25 years old who is not perfect like a lot of you guys. So girls do not notice me. But I do have some high value qualities.
I'm kinda average looking, tall and have my own place but I am skinny, partly by genetics and partly by choice because I do not like to spend my time at the gym I like to game, sail, study and spend time with friends more. Another thing is that I look poor (believe me I am not) It is just that I like to live cheap. Living as cheap and healthy as possible is like a game for me.
Anyway the first valuable lesson you learn by making a Grindr account is that you learn how it feels to get validated by guys and how ridiculous it is. I created my account and got spammed so badly. Its like tinder reversed. I have no interest in guys so I politely replied to most of them and changed my bio to "I am looking for trans woman".
The second lesson you learn is that you learn what a girlfriend experience is because is so super easy to get a girl on there. After I changed my bio I was already casually talking to two girls at the same time. Never happened before at tinder or in real life because as I have said, I am not a top 10%er. I have had girlfriends before, but for those of you who do not it can be a value lesson and then decide if the MGTOW lifestyle is for you.
Btw This may not work for you if you are a 1 in all aspects. But I never met such a person. Everyone has something he is good at right? Maybe a pure 1 is as rare as a shiny Pokemon?
Another something, never pay for bedroom fun, rather do my strategy. Watch the video of Fresh and Fit about that one, very educating one because they teach you real bedroom fun is different that paying for it. Emotional vs transactional bedroom fun is not the same. I have learned a lot from them because I have never payed for it or had it emotional so I didn't know.
I'm not ashamed of that, it is kinda be myself or become a beta man only for the bedroom fun.
Me myself I like being a bachelor. Just like Joker I would date only short term, max 6 months and prefer focusing on my self and my boat. I will look more into Grindr after my exams. And I have a good feeling about this, so much to learn. But would of course only date on my terms. My life comes first.
Great video of F&F about why you should not pay for bedroom fun:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JK7jfkFA_DA&t=52s
Lastly big shout out to Joker! I have been watching Joker since fall 2019. He is the one who motivated me to going my own way and started living on my sailboat for 100 euro a month ;)
