I have been mostly a lurker here for long time, and have read post after post about how society hurt you, and how you have been manipulated by people(women especially), and you all had try to get past the hurt, and anger that you felt,. Well what i am about to say may not be new to some of you,. But for those who are still unaware,. It was partly your fault for letting it happen to you,. Now i am not saying that to be mean or belittling,. I am just pointing out if you had cut them out of your life sooner,. It would have been better for you,. Also if were to be a bit more ruthless,. viscous and honest fewer people would have fucked with with you,. Over the past few years i have been working to harden my heart, and only give people kindness,. My time, and respect to those who truly deserve it,. If life has taught me anything,. It is that it is okay to be selfish self centered and even (when needed) viscous, and cruel. Life is not just going to hand everything you want, and you can believe me when i say anything that can be used against you will be, and with impunity,. You must learn how to be ruthless, and use your enemy weakness against them,. Because they will do the same to you,. Without hesitation,. You must learn how to become a destructive force in the world,. One final note,. You live in a world full of enemies always be on your guard record everything, and always be prepared for a battle(Legal/physical/emotional/mental) I have ramble on enough, and bid you all a good morning.