I wrote the following comment and got removed for wrong think. They said is was because I confused the singular and plural forms of "woman". Must be flying over the target men.

My comment: "When a woman says “man up” or something like that, they mean “refocus on providing and protecting”. The statement is a shaming tactic to get you to prioritize your thinking and actions always in relation to a woman’s needs, a child’s needs, and society’s needs. if you have any wants or needs for yourself specifically, unrelated to their needs and wants - and act that out- you will be shamed for being unmanly.

One of the most difficult things to understand as a man is that society has a plan for you and it is that you are a mule and very little else.

You will need to define who you are in that context.

Growing up in a female based home you probably learned a “man”is a person who serves woman and children. A man is stoic and suffers in silence. Think John Wayne. Woman and children do not want to see anything out of you but what is good for them, honestly. If you put your shoulder into protecting and producing you will be framed more manly. Simple. If you choose to serve yourself you will be seen as less manly by most woman and most men too- as men are conditioned by birth for this role.

But what you think a man is, is anything you want it to be. In my opinion a man decides for himself how much of the “mule” he wants to be. Just remember, you will be shamed if you give yourself anything to the exclusion of woman. It is simple math."

End comment

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenOver30/comments/l0jy19/fathers_and_sons_help_me_out/gju04a6/

Your content has been removed for improper usage of the word(s) "woman" or "women"

This was done to reduce complaints from users who for some reason are annoyed by this.

"Woman" is used to refer to just one woman. "Women" is used to refer to more than one woman.

You incorrectly wrote, a women

Please feel free to post again with this error corrected.

Re: Women Woman

It was removed by a filter for mixing up plurals and singulars, ie "a women" etc.

You should have received a PM.

Re: Women Woman

to PM_ME_UR_INSIGHTS[M] via /r/AskMenOver30 sent just now

Yeah, mixing up plurals and singulars - yeah sure there