I personally am going through a complete emotional separation from my mother, my family, women, and even society right now (MGTOW monk mode).
I'm finding there are several groups within this MGTOW community that I'm just not identifying with. For example, there are people here who are 17 and planning to break up with their high school girlfriend this week, which is great but I'm just not going through the same thing right now.
There's also a surprising number of people here who are engaging with friends with benefits, one night stands, hookers, and even regular or live-in relationships while considering themselves MGTOW. That's great for them and maybe I'll have relationships again with women in the future, but also I'm just not doing the same thing.
I'm finding myself only wanting to talk to men who are in my segment or have gone through it before and are happy to contribute. I really don't want to relive high school or talk about sex toys. I'm just not into that.
How many others are similar? How many of you are out on your own and cutting ties and bonds with family in order to carve out your own life? How many of you are truly monk or truly solo MGTOW and not engaging in any romantic or sexual relationships with women?
I just want to find you guys and see what you're up to and how things are going. At this point, I don't exactly know what my ideals or goals are for all this, I just know that I want to be emotionally independent from all of the women in my life right now and then set a new course. I also want to be able to make a good living without feeling like I'm on my hands and knees and getting slapped around in the workplace. I just want my independence more than anything.
Where are my people?
Are you similarly disappointed with a lot of the discussion here, or is it just me?
