For context I am a 37 (almost 38) year old male. Divorced 2 1/2 years ago after a 9 year marriage went south due to my ex wife's hypergamy (cheating). No worries though, water under the bridge. I still (carefully) date (a dude has needs) and enjoy some female company here and there. But I am going to feed you guys some live stats so you can get a good picture of what the world is like out there as a man who is dating. (TLDR: Its not worth it).
My stats: 6'1, 14% body fat (cut af) make just under 100k a year.. more around 80-90 depending on how much extra hours I feel like putting in. Strong jawline, full head of hair. Am a public figure to some regard (more famous than an average guy but not a celeb)
By many metrics I have most of what women "claim" to look for.
Since my divorce in 2018, I have dated or at the least gotten to know quite well 10 women where we both had mutual sexual/romantic interest in each other. Here are the results:
Number of them who:
Claimed to be abused or come out of an abusive relationship (some even sending pics of bruises for sympathy within the first week.) 10/10
Took responsibility for their poor choice in mate: 1/10
Who were fat or at least overweight when their initial pics were not: 5/10
On Mental Health meds: 7/10
Put forth equal effort in maintaining a relationship: 2/10
Behaved like a lady and not a man: 2/10
Had trashy tattoos and grotesque piercings: 8/10
Had a stable/good relationship with her father: 1/10 (most came from single mother homes)
Overvalued her SMV and RMV: 10/10
Severe Narcissist: 5/10
Addicted to Social media: 7/10
I could go on guys... but you get the idea. By many metrics (financial value/looks/status) I am in the top 20% of men and its a fucking shit show out there. DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME. I was a guy who despite being red pill did want to see if I could pair bond and maybe have a family. Its one of the things that I wanted (no marriage though and no common law where I live) but its just not a possibility these days. It is one mess after another. Id highly recommend that if you wish to just have sex to hire a professional and wrap it up. I am starting to drift that route. Because quite frankly, these bitches ain't shit.
