I know, I know, what a shocker. I was always a huge advocate on here for keeping this sub about going your own way without lingering on experiences with women or incel-ish posts. I’m not going to lie, I’ve been redpilled so hard, I don’t know how it took this long.
I posted something satirical on my private story on Snapchat and two girls on there (who are both best friends) got really pressed over it. It was funny, they didn’t find it funny, but life moves on. Well, apparently not, because one of them sent me paragraphs about how terrible of a person I am and start yammering on about things she’s heard about me, literally defamation, accusations about things I’ve done to girls (none of what she said was true).
I’ve never done anything with a girl that wasn’t consensual. I make it very clear to a point that it can even turn people off by saying, “Listen, I know I am a man who is 3 times your size, you’re here at my place, my door is locked, but if you are uncomfortable and don’t want to do this, please tell me now and we can stop and I can even take you home.” I say that every time, and I have never had an issue. This girl proceeds to tell me “Just because you thought it was consensual doesn’t mean it was”.
I’m sorry, but I fucking give up. If I extend my furthest to communicate about a situation and ask for consent, and I make it clear that denying won’t result in any consequences (meaning if she says no, that’s fine, nothing happens), then I’ve held up my end of the deal. I’m not going to play a fucking guessing game with a girl acting like “Hey do you wanna do this? You said yes, but maybe you meant to say no. Are you feeling pressured? How can I help? I know you keep saying yes, but I feel like deep down you don’t mean that. Maybe we should just stay 10 feet away from each other”.
I gave that scenario to her, and I shit you not, her response was “Yes, correct”. and followed by “Don’t try to make any advance on girls. Don’t talk to girls if you can’t tell if they’re into you”.
I’m redpilled and probably going “monk”. Guys, consent is meaningless. If consent is given but a girl regrets giving that consent, she can completely turn the tables. For me, it’s not worth getting my dick wet just to risk having my future destroyed because of the words of another person. I always thought “Oh this is so stupid, girls don’t act like that. This is an anomaly”.
Boy, I was wrong. It’s not an anomaly. Girls act like this all the time, and I was in complete denial. Consent means nothing, all that matters is what she decides after the fact. The reward is not worth the risk. She then went on to accuse me of forcing myself onto girls that aren’t sober (HAS NEVER HAPPENED, literally defamation against me). Then she said something along the lines of “you have no idea what it’s like to be pressured by someone and have them force themselves onto you”.
By that point I lost it, I’ve never been more enraged than by that. Without getting into personal details, I do happen to know what that is like from when I was a kid. I absolutely went off on her and used the most colorful language I could think of. She tried apologizing, but I called her out on her bullshit. She was only apologizing because she felt obligated because she’s so “fake woke”. She has no actual regard or empathy for anyone else’s struggles. She only abides by literally anything that feeds into her “white savior” complex. It’s insufferable and it’s literal degeneracy.
So, I just needed to rant. I feel like my perspective on the world and society just got flipped. I’ve deactivated all my social media (minus Reddit) and I will be taking 6 months off, starting tomorrow, to focus on myself, getting into the best shape of my life, school, family, and work.
The “reward” is not worth the risk. Go your own way.
